A carefree or organized attitude and mode?

Many years and attempts at both approaches have taught me that it is best to follow your own individual inclination in these matters. If you are by nature more spontaneous and carefree than go with that style but keep it within a workable framework and impose schedules and order on yourself as productivity dictates. Conversely if you are more on the ordered side use weekends and free times to discover your spontaneous more relaxed side. Choosing to explore an alternate way of living that runs against your nature is healthy but should be done during times and events that wont stress you out. In other words, dont try to create order at a party and dont try to be carefree during finals week !